Identifying Domestic Violence

Every relationship presents its challenges and can be difficult from time-to-time.  However, when a relationship takes a turn for the worse and becomes volatile or causes one partner to live in a state of fear, it is not normal and may be classified as abusive.

In the United States, domestic violence is a serious problem that often goes unreported.  All too often, people who are subjected to physical, emotional, verbal, sexual or financial domestic abuse do not report it to authorities because they are either afraid or do not believe they are being abused. 

If you believe that you are a victim of domestic abuse, ask yourself the following questions:

• Does your spouse/partner put you down or humiliate you?
• Does your spouse/partner say mean things to hurt your feelings?
• Does your spouse/partner try to separate you from close friends or family?
• Does your spouse/partner hit, kick, slap or physically hurt you?
• Does your spouse/partner act jealous all the time?
• Does your spouse/partner prohibit you from socializing or going places?
• Does your spouse/partner make you feel worthless?
• Does your spouse/partner force you to engage in sexual activities against your will?

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, you may be a victim of domestic violence.  The best thing you can do to stop the abuse is to consult with a family attorney that can protect your rights and put an end to your spouse or partner's behavior.