Avoiding Parental Alienation

When going through a divorce, it can be exceptionally hard not to pull children into the mess, even for the best of parents. Parents should look for these signs of parental alienation and work to correct any unfair behavior toward their children.

Don't give children a choice when it comes to visiting their other parent. The other parent has the right to see their child, so letting the child think the decision is in their hands will result in anger and resentment when they learn that they actually have no choice in the matter.

Don't tell your child the intimate details of your divorce and the reasons for it. This is a way for a parent, whether intentionally or not, to try to get the child on "their side," and it can be very destructive to the child's relationship with both parents.

Acknowledge that your child has property that is important to them, and allow your child to transport their possessions between your residence and that of your spouse.

Do what's best for your child by cooperating with your spouse as much as possible. This means sharing your child's school and medical records as well as their schedules of extracurricular activities.

Don't blame the other parent for financial trouble, breaking up the family, changes in lifestyle, or having a new relationship in front of your child.

If you're going through a divorce, make the process as painless on yourself and your children as possible by contacting a family law attorney today who can help you through this difficult time.