What is Collaborative Divorce?
Posted on Mar 18, 2010 11:25am PDT
Divorce can easily become a messy, emotionally draining process, especially when a divorce is litigated in court. Not all divorces have to be contentious though. When the parties agreed to sit down with one another and amicably settle the various issues of the divorce, it is referred to as collaborative divorce.
Benefits of Collaborative Divorce
All divorcing couples can greatly benefit from engaging in the collaborative divorce process versus litigating a divorce case in family court. First and foremost, collaborative divorce is far less taxing and emotionally draining than litigation. Instead of fighting and arguing over every detail, the parties work together in an amicable fashion to resolve their divorce. The ability to work through the divorce cordially and peacefully will save both parties from the headache, stress, and wave of negative emotions often associated with litigation.
The parties also have a better chance at reaching a solution that is fair for everyone during collaborative divorce. Because the parties are willing to listen to what each other has to say, instead of simply arguing the whole time, it’s much easier to resolve differences and reach decisions that are in everyone’s best interest.
Another benefit of collaborative divorce is that is it easier on the entire family, especially children. It is difficult enough for children to deal with a divorce. When their parents constantly argue, fight, or bicker, it makes that whole experience that much harder and much more traumatic.
If you think collaborative divorce is something you and your ex can agree to try, then click here to find a family law attorney near you. Should you decide to settle your divorce collaboratively, an experienced divorce lawyer can provide you with more information about this process and provide you with the legal guidance and counsel you need while settling your divorce.